Soul Mates
The term soul mate signifies many different things to many people. Some feel that soulmates are souls that you've experienced in past, parallel or future lifetimes. They can also be aspects of your soul experiencing at this time in a different body. We are all multidimensional beings, your soul having experiences, in many realities, at the same time. As we all develop from the same reference of consciousness creation, we could say that we really actually have less than six degrees of separation.
Soul mate is also a term sometimes used to denominate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, sexuality, and/or compatibility. Soul mates can have various types of relationships, which don't always include romance or marriage. They can be close friends, colleagues, a teacher, anyone who influences your life one way or another. They play the emotional, spiritual, physical, and mental, games of third dimension with us. They can affect relationships in a positive or negative way contingent on the emotional issues of the people implicated.
Soulmates may come together to work out issues or play reverse roles than that of which they are experiencing elsewhere in another time or place.
Anyone who is in your biological family, or adopted family, or pseudo-family, is likely a soul mate to you. You may feel closer to certain souls, because you have pulled to them as they are on the same frequency as you or because you would like to work out past tense issues with the soul concerned. Karma can come into play and to responsibilities shared by soul mates.
Sometimes its thought that soul mates come together to bring another twin soul into the physical realms. A man and woman mate and produce one or more children, the karma thus completed ends. The couple separates and share whatever karma is linked to the child. This may explain divorce for some of us. Sometimes the karma in a family is between mother and child, so the child remains exclusively with the mother. Sometimes the karma is with the father and the mother leaves the child to the fathers care. Sometimes it is with both parents or with a sibling who's entered the family before or after you.
As the soul seeks unity with its self, the journey home, (twin flame connections), it tends to think of a soul mate as The One (which is actually the source of creation) who is there for us and to make us feel complete. The other half of us so to speak. In truth, very few partnerships even very happy ones are a true soulmate connection of twin flames. When it is the case, you may simply 'know it' on a psychic level.
Soul mates can bring out the best and worst in each other, depending on their issues, and often no matter how hard someone tries to hang on to such a partnership, the lesson may be to let go. Any god psychic will tell during a psychic love reading that in your life time, you will get the chance at many 'soul mate' type partnerships, so don't disappear if a relationship folds, another chance at a 'soul mate' partnership is sure to be just around the corner.
by psychhcs.iyxbtooar
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
5 Common Myths About Soulmate Relationships
There are many myths about the definition of a soulmate and what a soulmate relationship is all about. Let's discuss and debunk some of these myths in this article.
Myth #1: "There is only ONE soulmate for each of us out there". It's important to understand that your soul is compatible with more than one other soul on this planet. Essentially, your soul is part of an energy pool that is shared among many other beings, all of whom could easily resonate well with you and be able to form a soulmate relationship. So, there isn't just one person out there that is a perfect match for you in terms of a love relationship. That would be like saying that you can only have one good friend in your entire lifetime, which is simply not true. Sure, you can have some friends with whom you have more of a connection than others, but, chances are, you're going to have more than one good friend in your life.
Myth #2: "Soulmate relationships last forever." Having met your soulmate doesn't necessarily mean that the relationship will last until both of your physical deaths. Some soulmate relationships don't work out, but that doesn't mean that those relationships were wrong or useless. Certain people must enter our lives at certain points to teach us valuable lessons and contribute to our soul's growth in some way. But they don't necessarily have to stay in our lives forever (although, of course, some do and that's because they continue to contribute to our soul's growth rather than to its detriment).
Myth #3: "Only lucky people get to be in soulmate relationships." Forming and maintaining soulmate relationships has nothing to do with luck! Every soulmate relationship is a carefully chosen connection of your energy (essence) to another person's energy (essence). Calling this "luck" is almost an insult to the soul, as it gives us a loophole, an excuse as to why we can't have a soulmate relationship. It's a justification based on our past and/or present situation and/or what the majority says. The fact is that finding a soulmate relationship is very much in your hands. It is up to you to get your "logical" mind out of the way and attract your soulmate. The main reason that people don't attract their soulmates is that they have certain mental blocks that don't allow them to engage in a soulmate relationship (because of a traumatic past, for example). Click here to learn more about how your own mind can sabotage you.
Myth #4: "Soulmate relationships only happen to the chosen few". As we said in debunking Myth #1, your soul is part of an energy pool that is shared among many other beings, all of whom could easily resonate well with you and be able to form a soulmate relationship. That means that every single person on earth can have thousands of soulmates! You can literally have your pick of soulmates right now! It is only a matter of finding them and putting in a little effort to maintain the relationship you form, which is what The Soulmate Guide is all about.
Myth #5: "Soulmate relationships are hard to find". This one is kind of like a self-fulfilling prophecy. What that means is that when you hear, say, and emphasize something enough, you believe it, and the outcome turns out just like you believed. In other words, if you think, believe, or say something is hard, your subconscious mind will make you perceive it as hard. This is not only true about soulmate relationships, but just about everything in life. In the case of soulmates, if you believe they are hard to find, your mind will literally make you blind to all the potential soulmates that are out there for you. You will most likely not even see them! So, realizing that out of the thousands of soulmates you are compatible with, meeting at least a couple is quite likely, is a great first step toward attracting your soulmate.
Myth #1: "There is only ONE soulmate for each of us out there". It's important to understand that your soul is compatible with more than one other soul on this planet. Essentially, your soul is part of an energy pool that is shared among many other beings, all of whom could easily resonate well with you and be able to form a soulmate relationship. So, there isn't just one person out there that is a perfect match for you in terms of a love relationship. That would be like saying that you can only have one good friend in your entire lifetime, which is simply not true. Sure, you can have some friends with whom you have more of a connection than others, but, chances are, you're going to have more than one good friend in your life.
Myth #2: "Soulmate relationships last forever." Having met your soulmate doesn't necessarily mean that the relationship will last until both of your physical deaths. Some soulmate relationships don't work out, but that doesn't mean that those relationships were wrong or useless. Certain people must enter our lives at certain points to teach us valuable lessons and contribute to our soul's growth in some way. But they don't necessarily have to stay in our lives forever (although, of course, some do and that's because they continue to contribute to our soul's growth rather than to its detriment).
Myth #3: "Only lucky people get to be in soulmate relationships." Forming and maintaining soulmate relationships has nothing to do with luck! Every soulmate relationship is a carefully chosen connection of your energy (essence) to another person's energy (essence). Calling this "luck" is almost an insult to the soul, as it gives us a loophole, an excuse as to why we can't have a soulmate relationship. It's a justification based on our past and/or present situation and/or what the majority says. The fact is that finding a soulmate relationship is very much in your hands. It is up to you to get your "logical" mind out of the way and attract your soulmate. The main reason that people don't attract their soulmates is that they have certain mental blocks that don't allow them to engage in a soulmate relationship (because of a traumatic past, for example). Click here to learn more about how your own mind can sabotage you.
Myth #4: "Soulmate relationships only happen to the chosen few". As we said in debunking Myth #1, your soul is part of an energy pool that is shared among many other beings, all of whom could easily resonate well with you and be able to form a soulmate relationship. That means that every single person on earth can have thousands of soulmates! You can literally have your pick of soulmates right now! It is only a matter of finding them and putting in a little effort to maintain the relationship you form, which is what The Soulmate Guide is all about.
Myth #5: "Soulmate relationships are hard to find". This one is kind of like a self-fulfilling prophecy. What that means is that when you hear, say, and emphasize something enough, you believe it, and the outcome turns out just like you believed. In other words, if you think, believe, or say something is hard, your subconscious mind will make you perceive it as hard. This is not only true about soulmate relationships, but just about everything in life. In the case of soulmates, if you believe they are hard to find, your mind will literally make you blind to all the potential soulmates that are out there for you. You will most likely not even see them! So, realizing that out of the thousands of soulmates you are compatible with, meeting at least a couple is quite likely, is a great first step toward attracting your soulmate.
Trying to Find Your Soulmate? When Fantasy Meets Reality
Walk up to nearly any single adult and ask, "Would you like to find your Soulmate?" and more times than not the answer, without hesitation, will be "Yes!"
The dream that there is someone out there who is perfectly connected with and completes each one of us is certainly a romantic concept. Unfortunately, in the quest for "The One" who completes who we are, we seem to overlook some fundamental realities: The "other half" who fits perfectly with you will often share your background, your values, your beliefs - or some combination of these and more. Most importantly, your perfect match should - and will - enjoy many of the things in life that you enjoy too. Otherwise, the two of you will never be happy as a couple!
Let's start with an example...
There are those who offer advice to singles who will advise you to go to the gym after work to meet professionals who go there too. Or they may recommend volunteer work - or flirting in public with absolute strangers. What's striking about this type of advice is suggesting things that are not in your nature!
There's little point in joining a gym, if in fact you do not want to be there. Chances are that if you meet someone there at all, it will be someone who enjoys working out. But if you yourself do not, then this "common interest" may lead you nowhere.
If volunteering is just not your thing, why would you want to surround yourself with people who enjoy volunteer work? Wouldn't it be better to meet someone who shares an interest you sincerely have in common? Without passing judgment or attempting to fit a square peg into a round hole, why not start with some honest self-examination, so your social life as a single adult is in harmony with your true nature as a person?
The point is that if you're wanting to find your Soulmate, it would be best not to fake your way into someone else's life by pretending to have interests that are not really yours.
The truth is that none of us are really that "attractive" when we're doing something that's completely unnatural. So get involved with something you enjoy! It's far easier to make connections with others, and attract new friends and companions, when we are clearly enjoying what we're doing. The Internet is a wonderful resource for finding group organizations that cover every interest under the sun. See if there's an organization for your particular hobby where you will automatically meet others who share what you genuinely love!
Also keep in mind that just because the people around you may not be single, doesn't mean they don't have friends who are. Blind dates are, of course, an entirely different subject, but if you can meet a friend of a friend at a group event or a lunch, how can you go wrong with that?
As we all hope to find the perfect partner to accompany us through the rest of our lives, your first logical step should be doing something you love. The goal here is to meet people with whom you're genuinely compatible - and not necessarily singles - because people in relationships often know others who are looking and can make those introductions for you.
The key is to stop concentrating on trying to meet someone who's single, but instead concentrate on the things that make you happy. Do what you love - and new relationships will surely follow!
by Jay Reiss
The dream that there is someone out there who is perfectly connected with and completes each one of us is certainly a romantic concept. Unfortunately, in the quest for "The One" who completes who we are, we seem to overlook some fundamental realities: The "other half" who fits perfectly with you will often share your background, your values, your beliefs - or some combination of these and more. Most importantly, your perfect match should - and will - enjoy many of the things in life that you enjoy too. Otherwise, the two of you will never be happy as a couple!
Let's start with an example...
There are those who offer advice to singles who will advise you to go to the gym after work to meet professionals who go there too. Or they may recommend volunteer work - or flirting in public with absolute strangers. What's striking about this type of advice is suggesting things that are not in your nature!
There's little point in joining a gym, if in fact you do not want to be there. Chances are that if you meet someone there at all, it will be someone who enjoys working out. But if you yourself do not, then this "common interest" may lead you nowhere.
If volunteering is just not your thing, why would you want to surround yourself with people who enjoy volunteer work? Wouldn't it be better to meet someone who shares an interest you sincerely have in common? Without passing judgment or attempting to fit a square peg into a round hole, why not start with some honest self-examination, so your social life as a single adult is in harmony with your true nature as a person?
The point is that if you're wanting to find your Soulmate, it would be best not to fake your way into someone else's life by pretending to have interests that are not really yours.
The truth is that none of us are really that "attractive" when we're doing something that's completely unnatural. So get involved with something you enjoy! It's far easier to make connections with others, and attract new friends and companions, when we are clearly enjoying what we're doing. The Internet is a wonderful resource for finding group organizations that cover every interest under the sun. See if there's an organization for your particular hobby where you will automatically meet others who share what you genuinely love!
Also keep in mind that just because the people around you may not be single, doesn't mean they don't have friends who are. Blind dates are, of course, an entirely different subject, but if you can meet a friend of a friend at a group event or a lunch, how can you go wrong with that?
As we all hope to find the perfect partner to accompany us through the rest of our lives, your first logical step should be doing something you love. The goal here is to meet people with whom you're genuinely compatible - and not necessarily singles - because people in relationships often know others who are looking and can make those introductions for you.
The key is to stop concentrating on trying to meet someone who's single, but instead concentrate on the things that make you happy. Do what you love - and new relationships will surely follow!
by Jay Reiss
Using an Online Dating Coach to Find Love, Happiness... and even Find Your Soulmate!
In this age of technology, where you find yourself faced with more time-saving devices than ever - and are simultaneously busier than ever - it is gratifying to know that you have new resources available to help you find love... happiness... and even find your Soulmate.
Internet Dating is gaining in popularity and no longer holds the stigma it did even five years ago. Online dating and matchmaking services have become highly regarded as reliable ways to take the guesswork out of dating. For those who have concentrated heavily on their careers - only to find that with success comes less time for dating - online dating services have become an invaluable tool in helping singles meet like-minded others.
Want to Find your Soulmate? The Online Dating Coach to the Rescue!
As an added benefit to the convenience of online dating, clients can also receive the services of an Online Dating Coach or "Love Coach" as we're sometimes referred to by our clients. As a professional guide and consultant, a Dating Coach is now in demand by singles who are looking for guidance. Many professionals understand how important it is to describe the best parts of their personalities in writing - and this is where a Dating Coach can really help you shine!
An Online Dating Coach is an expert and will create an outstanding Online Dating Profile for you. There aren't many Online Dating Coaches in the world, but those who choose this profession are often talented - and even masterful - at creating a dating profile. The coach's talent will be crucial to the client who has a lot to offer in a relationship, but who just isn't skillful at putting his or her ideas down on paper.
An Online Dating Coach will typically conduct an initial telephone interview with you, asking you lots of very interesting questions. During the first coaching session, your dating coach will take a look at your personality. By asking you a series of personal and revealing questions and paying attention to how you reply, your coach will use this information to create a dating strategy just for you.
Be honest with your dating coach in expressing what you're looking for. In addition to describing your personality in your dating profile, your coach will help you be realistic in your search for a relationship. If you're an average-looking guy collecting unemployment benefits with three young kids at home, it's unlikely you'll be dating a world-famous supermodel - no matter how much you think you might want to.
But on the other hand, your coach will also help you achieve the best results possible. Often an average-looking man or woman can be made to look and sound much better than they might sound on their own, just by highlighting and accentuating their best qualities. Your coach will also help you write Letters of Introduction. This will benefit you in several ways - for one, your response rate to your dating matches will almost certainly increase, and you'll have access to more attractive partners.
As an emerging new category of personal coaching, the role of the Online Dating Coach will almost certainly expand over the next five to ten years. As Online Dating grows in popularity, so will the role of the Dating Coach in serving the needs of clients worldwide who flock to dating sites in search of their Soulmates!
by Jay Reiss
Finding your perfect mate ( Twin Flame soulmate )
Finding the Perfect Mate
People with some knowledge of the Zodiac ( astrology ) have a real advantage when it comes to finding their perfect mate.
For the simple reason that we humans are classified by a "sign" that tells a whole lot about our personality and it is easy to find out a person's birthday, and hence their sun sign.
Do you realize there are only twelve different signs in the zodiac so it is not hard to learn a few facts about each sign.
In fact, the easiest way to learn is to keep track of your friends and associates by sign, then before long you will know the eager beavers from the procrastinators.
Know the people who want everything "yesterday" versus the ones who have to plan ahead a few months, and those who never have a clean plate and are always behind in their work.
You can even know the people who are always late for appointments so you can set a date an hour early knowing they will be an hour late and just be on time for your timeframe.
There are nig spenders who always want to take you out
Then there are others who are frugal and never want to spend money.
Use this information to your advantage.
This is like having a prospective mate tell you what their "hot buttons" to attract them.
If you already know that their sign is impetuous and a free spender who accumulates stuff without concern about a budget, and wants everything right away, you can start dating and become their " social director."
A certain "fire" sign considers serious arguing as their form of communication. Fighting is simply their style and is not serious.
Are you beginning to get the picture that you can know a persons habits based on some features of their character.
You might be wondering how accurate this information really is and how you can become proficient at spotting these traits.
It is our purpose to keep it simple.
Show you how to recognize the 12 types.
Give you the signals for knowing them.
We have used this method in all our relationships and avoided Many mis-matches.
Astrology goes back 5,000 years.
Countries such as China and India have always used this science to match their children up matrimonially and have fewer divorces in their cultures because of the compatibility matching.
Certain zodiac types are more compatible with each other than others.
You may have noticed this fact over the years that you are better received by some people than others.
We have people who are warmer and more friendly towards us than others who seem to distrust us or just don't seem to like us.
Imagine if you knew in advance which potential mates were receptive and loving and compatible before being dated.
We would have eliminate a lot of quarrels and divorces.
You learn by observing and tracking who is what sign, and then what are their characteristics.
This is easy to do as there are only 12 signs, with a few commonalities.
For instance you can start with yourself and your immediate family, then branch out to your friends and work-associates then check their major characteristics against the zodiac features in the back of this book.
by Grant Darbyson
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