SOULMATES: How to Find Yours -- And Who Will Help You

by Kate Falken

"Soulmates. Everyone is looking for one. The term has become a cliche. But, do they exist? What are they really? The romanticized version is that your soulmate is your perfect twin flame - your one true love. The belief is that somewhere, on the earth plane, walks the one person to complete you." Psychic Fyrewolf of Psychic Scene.

So, exactly what are Soul Mates and how can we find ours?

"Soulmates," Fyrewolf goes on to explain, "and twin flames are not the same thing. The one true love, destined to be your 'other half' happens with odds greater than that of being hit by lightning. And even then, should you find one another, you are not assured of a blissful existence. Look at Tristan and Isolde.. Romeo and Juliet... Anthony and Cleopatra. Most cultures have their own myths built around these archetypes.

"None of them went on to live fruitful, happy lives. They are tragic figures immortalized by their pain. But, would their love have survived if they had lived? Soulmates refers to the souls that we tend to continue incarnating with: the ones who help teach us lessons. Is there one right person for us? No, it's a matter of degrees. In predictive sciences, such as numerology and astrology, we look at points of compatibility to see how well suited you are. Is that your soulmate? It all depends on the lessons you need to learn. A soulmate is someone you share a deep affinity with, but that someone may not just be your spouse. It could be your parent, your best friend, your child, your sibling, even your mentor."

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Ellie, from Crystallinks.com explains: "Souls often come together to work out issues or play reverse roles....You feel closer to certain souls, because you have attracted them into your life as they are on the same frequency as you or because you want to work out issues with them."

"Karma is the responsibility shared between soul mates. Often soul mates come together to bring another soul into the physical realm. A man and woman mate and produce one or more children - the karma thus completed ends. The couple separates and share whatever karma is linked to the child. Sometimes the karma in family is between mother and child - so the child remains exclusively with the mother. Sometimes, the karma is with the father and the mother leaves or deceases. Sometimes it is with both parents or with a sibling who has entered the game before or after you."

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I think the answer to this question is very nicely addressed by Hugh Lynn Cayce, son of Edgar Cayce (otherwise known as "The Sleeping Profit"). The following extract was taken from Edgar Cayce.org and the Association for Research and Enlightenment. "...We should, no doubt, be cautious about leaving a current marriage partner merely because of an attraction to someone else. In all likelihood, the very same problems and 'opportunities' we are currently facing would be the same regardless of which partner we have in our lives. In relationships, we most often come to terms with those things we need to work on in ourselves, even though we might sometimes think of our partner as being the source of our frustration. Those who come across the idea of soul mates after having already married can still rest assured that their partner is, in fact a Soul Mate."

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According to the website, "Universal Oneness Unites" at www.uou.to/soulmates.htm, "Relationships are mirrors that help us to learn more about ourselves...There are three different types of relationship mirrors. One is the mirror of who you were. This mirror gives you the opportunity to see how far you have come, the chance to experience the karma that you have already cleared. So, don't get caught up in this relationship worried about why it is coming back at this time, thank it and let it go....A second type of relationship is the one that is mirroring where you are now in your path. "If an issue or person has an emotional 'charge' to it, then you still have work to do. This mirror is the hardest to look at because it reflects the issues you have not yet finished in your life. These are the things that we are the most blind to. The last type of relationship is the one that mirrors your potential. This allows you to have a glimpse at who you could be, if you wanted to. This person is usually someone that you idealize and put on a pedestal or look up to. Take a look at your various relationships and see which group they fall into. By knowing this you will gain insight into yourself. Self understanding is the entire reason for these mirrors, not to 'fix' the other person, but to look at yourself and learn." *

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In Thomas Moore's book, SOULMATES, the author makes a strong case for removing the logical mind from the relationship. In essence, he suggests that what we all fail to understand about relationships is that they don't take into account the element of magick that transcends rational thought and defies technical dissection. Moore writes:

"A soul mate is someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though the communicating and communing that take place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace....Marriage is by nature miraculous and magical. We do not understand it and cannot know where it is headed."

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Kate Falken http://www.kathleenfalken.0catch.com